There are many memories I have of being the only Pentecostal in public school in the eighties. It was one thing attending school where I had grown up and already knew everybody and already answered all the “big” questions. You know the ones, “Why are you wearing a long dress?” “Why aren’t you wearing makeup?” “Why don’t you cut your hair?” and other less polite questions. Very few people asked the important question about salvation or my core beliefs. That was fine with me at that point in my life. I just wanted to fit in or be invisible. Not the invisible that meant nobody saw me or knew who I was, but the invisible that avoided the “big” questions and weird looks–like I was the one that was weird.
Prior to my senior year my family moved to De Queen where I was able to start all over. It was a new beginning, right? I could be a “cool” Pentecostal kid that managed to hang out in the background. All the kids there had built friendships since Kindergarten so all I had to do was be invisible for one school year. It’s really much harder than it sounds especially when you talk–a lot. Add to the fact that somehow I transferred into a bigger school as a “smart” student. (I have no idea how the smart rumor came about but it managed to make me less invisible.)
One particular school day stands out in my memory. It was a pretty fall day and as always, students congregated in the court-yard during lunch. I had met another new student and we tended to hang out together during lunch. The two of us were standing near the door with our backs to the rest of the groups in the courtyard waiting on the bell to ring, minding our own business. Over the hum of conversations and horseplay we heard somebody call out, “Hey, holy roller!” We didn’t pay any attention as there were a lot of students in the courtyard and we weren’t involved in any other conversations. After a few seconds, we heard it again, “Hey, holy roller!”
The second time I heard it I realized what I had heard and was silently praying, “Dear God, please don’t let them be hollering at me”. I was still shooting for that invisible thing and decided to ignore the hollers and assume they were talking to somebody, anybody else. Apparently, ignoring the call didn’t help as we heard it again, much louder and more insistent than before, “HEY HOLY ROLLER!” At this point somebody tapped my shoulder and said, “I think they are hollering at you.” I was mortified, embarrassed, sweating from nervousness. I turned around and as far across the courtyard as you could be from where we stood was a guy named Dennis, hollering at me while horsing around with his friends. I’ll never know how the rest of that could have played out as I was literally saved by the bell. I hurried into the building thanking God the bell rang and I could escape with my red face.
So much for being invisible.
I feel like I can relate to this story to an extent because when I lived with my mom off of Westline Road (a road outside of Horatio/DeQueen we also were going to the Pentacostal Church (Holiness). Most of my family still go to this church and though I never really fully bought in I was still labeled as a “holy roller” by those that didn’t know me better. One such instance I can think of was my senior year when I convinced my mom to let me play basketball for the public school. I agreed to wear warm up pants and a t-shirt during the games but I was still pretty good and really a matchup nightmare for most of the small schools Umpire played that year (6’3″ish point guard who can shoot from half court in and athletic enough to drive and dunk). I heard a lady yell “hey, you forgot to take off your pants there kid!” the first game of the season. I blew by the guy guarding me and went up and dunked it on two more. I shouted back “no, they just wanted to make things equal for your kid is all.” Not only had I never really bought in but I was a bit of a smart ass as well…that being said I can still relate to growing up feeling like the world was watching you, scrutinizing what you did on a daily basis.
The building of this story is awesome. The intervention at the end puts a realistic “stop” to a story that could have had a much different (but not better) ending. I loved the passion in which this was written. Very bold and straight forward. I’m so glad you were saved by the bell….for real.